Cyberzenhub.com – Twenty-five years after the attacks of Sept. 11, 2001, the anniversary remains both a national moment of mourning and an intensely personal one for the families whose lives were changed that morning. Marian Fontana, whose husband Dave was a New York City firefighter, has spent decades raising their son, grieving her loss and deciding how best to honor his memory.

On the anniversary, Fontana and her son Aidan, now 30, plan to go to the beach in tribute to Dave Fontana. Their choice reflects the quieter ways many relatives of victims have come to mark the date, apart from the large public ceremonies in Lower Manhattan.…